RESOURCE LIBRARY

These are the carefully curated resources I often recommend. Make a cup of tea and spend some time looking through them.

 
 
 
 
 

START HERE

 

An introduction to the resources

 

Developing self-compassion

Kristin Neff’s website is full of amazing resources, courses and ideas (such as fierce self-compassion).

 

Special Time

Providing regular and consistent 1:1 time with your child helps them to feel calm and regulated. It can take time to work out the logitics but it’s worth it.

Also check other informatIon on this website. There are helpful articles about sleep issues, separation anxiety, siblings, creating boundaries etc.

Emotion coaching

It’s very easy to go straight to problem solving mode when trying to help children but over the long term this doesn’t help children to regulate their emotions.

 

PACE by Dan Hughes

This is an easy-to-remember tool to help you tune in to your child and work with them when thery are experiencing difficulties. It’s not always easy but time spent developing this kind of approach will help develop more enjoyable times with your child and reduced stress.

 

Documents

These are the documents I have already shared with you.


DIVING DEEPER

 

Reflection questions

Take some time to look through these questions about your child, your own parenting style and how you were parented.

 

Gottman parenting styles

An interesting quiz.

 

Nurture structure highway

It’s ok to go over to one side or the other sometimes. Where do you usually drive? A visual tool.

 

BOOKS AND RESOURCES FOR PARENTS

 

This book has some great practical ideas for the ‘Playful’ aspect of PACE and it offers valuable insights about the parent/ child relationship

Helpful language

Sometimes in the heat of the moment it’s hard to know what to say. Try using some of these phrases, choose the ones that feel right for you.

A compassionate book which covers so many of the questions you may have as a parent. Great to dip in to or read the whole book.

Neurodiversity

An excellent list of books and podcasts.

 
 
 

BOOKS AND RESOURCES FOR CHILDREN

 

This is such a beautiful book. It’s helpful for children who are experiencing separation anxiety, with the image of invisible string as a way of connecting people who love each other even though they are not always together

 

This book offers a way for children to start noticing their emotions and physical sensations in their bodies, it’s a good reminder for adults too!

 

Guided meditations for children

Insight Timer is a free app with many children’s meditations based on stories and imagery.